Would You Rather Questions for Couples

These 75 would you rather questions for couples are made for two people who want to learn something new about each other, whether you've been dating for three weeks or married for thirty years. Would you rather plan every date or be surprised every time? Live by the beach or in the mountains together? The questions are sweet and playful, with a few that nudge you into talking about the future.

Try playing it as a guessing game: before your partner answers, predict what they'll pick. Keep score if you're competitive. It's a nice fit for date night at home, a long drive, or a slow morning over coffee. Everything stays PG, so you won't find anything steamy, just plenty of chances to laugh and maybe discover a few things you didn't know.

How to play

1. One partner reads the question out loud.
2. The other partner secretly guesses what their partner will choose.
3. Both reveal answers and give a point for every correct guess.
4. Check how other couples voted, then swap readers.

All 75 Would You Rather Questions for Couples

1. Would you rather go stargazing together or go ice skating together?
2. Would you rather have a partner who's a morning person or have a partner who's a night owl like you?
3. Would you rather write your own vows or read classic vows?
4. Would you rather have a partner who's always early or have a partner who's always relaxed about time?
5. Would you rather see your partner at age 80 or see your partner at age 8?
6. Would you rather dance in the kitchen together or sing in the car together?
7. Would you rather build a blanket fort for date night or have a drive-in movie date?
8. Would you rather have a partner who remembers every tiny detail or have a partner who always makes you laugh?
9. Would you rather receive a love note in your lunch or receive a love note on the bathroom mirror?
10. Would you rather redo your wedding day or redo your honeymoon?
11. Would you rather have your love story made into a movie or have your love story made into a song?
12. Would you rather have a partner who gives the best advice or have a partner who gives the best hugs?
13. Would you rather have a secret handshake with your partner or have a secret language with your partner?
14. Would you rather have your partner surprise you with flowers or have your partner surprise you with breakfast in bed?
15. Would you rather meet your partner's family for the first time at Thanksgiving or meet them at a family wedding?
16. Would you rather have your partner cook for you every night or have your partner give you a foot rub every night?
17. Would you rather have a wedding with a taco truck or have a wedding with a pancake bar?
18. Would you rather spend a Valentine's Day at a fancy restaurant or spend it cooking together at home?
19. Would you rather have a love letter from your partner every year or have a photo album made by your partner every year?
20. Would you rather have a partner who plans surprise parties or have a partner who plans quiet nights in?
21. Would you rather build furniture together without arguing or put up holiday lights together without arguing?
22. Would you rather have a partner who's a great cook or have a partner who's great at fixing things?
23. Would you rather renew your vows on a beach or renew your vows in your backyard?
24. Would you rather know how your love story ends or be surprised every step of the way?
25. Would you rather have a romantic getaway in a lighthouse or have a romantic getaway in a treehouse?
26. Would you rather spend your anniversary in Paris or spend it in the town where you met?
27. Would you rather have your partner be your best friend or have your partner be your biggest cheerleader?
28. Would you rather have a partner who texts in all caps or have a partner who only replies with emojis?
29. Would you rather spend a rainy day in bed with movies or spend a sunny day at the beach?
30. Would you rather relive your first date or fast-forward to your 50th anniversary?
31. Would you rather have your partner give you a nickname you love or give your partner a nickname they love?
32. Would you rather do a couples' costume as salt and pepper or do a couples' costume as peanut butter and jelly?
33. Would you rather have your partner learn your favorite hobby or learn your partner's favorite hobby?
34. Would you rather go on a road trip with no plan or go on a vacation with every hour scheduled?
35. Would you rather decide where to eat by coin flip for a year or let your partner decide where to eat for a year?
36. Would you rather go on a road trip to see the fall leaves or go on a road trip to see the desert stars?
37. Would you rather fall in love at first sight or fall in love slowly over years?
38. Would you rather always get the last bite or always get the warm side of the bed?
39. Would you rather go on a picnic date or go on a fancy dinner date?
40. Would you rather travel the world together on a budget or stay home together with every comfort?
41. Would you rather have your partner write you a song or have your partner paint you a portrait?
42. Would you rather agree on every movie or agree on every restaurant?
43. Would you rather slow dance at every wedding you attend or lead the conga line at every wedding you attend?
44. Would you rather have matching pajamas every Christmas or have matching Halloween costumes every year?
45. Would you rather have your partner laugh at all your jokes or have your partner tell you all the best jokes?
46. Would you rather recreate your first date every anniversary or try a brand-new first every anniversary?
47. Would you rather get a sweet text every morning or get a hug every evening?
48. Would you rather be married to someone who's hilarious or be married to someone who's romantic?
49. Would you rather watch the sunrise together or watch the sunset together?
50. Would you rather get a handwritten love letter or get a surprise weekend getaway?
51. Would you rather have a partner who snores or have a partner who steals the covers?
52. Would you rather have your first kiss be a movie-worthy moment or have your proposal be a movie-worthy moment?
53. Would you rather have a partner who loves your family or have a family who loves your partner?
54. Would you rather have a big wedding or elope on a mountaintop?
55. Would you rather go on a double date every week or never go on a double date?
56. Would you rather have a date night every week or have a vacation together every year?
57. Would you rather take a cooking class together or take a dance class together?
58. Would you rather split every chore 50/50 or each take the chores you like best?
59. Would you rather be long-distance for a year or live together in a tiny studio for a year?
60. Would you rather have your partner plan every date or plan every date yourself?
61. Would you rather propose at a baseball game or propose at a quiet lake at sunset?
62. Would you rather be the big spoon forever or be the little spoon forever?
63. Would you rather celebrate every anniversary the same way or celebrate every anniversary somewhere new?
64. Would you rather have a partner who loves to cuddle or have a partner who loves to go on adventures?
65. Would you rather live in a cozy cabin together or live in a city loft together?
66. Would you rather watch your partner's favorite show with them or have them watch your favorite show with you?
67. Would you rather take a hot air balloon ride together or take a gondola ride together?
68. Would you rather get stuck in the rain together on a date or get stuck in a snowstorm together at a cabin?
69. Would you rather know everything your partner is thinking or have your partner know everything you're thinking?
70. Would you rather always agree on the thermostat or always agree on how to load the dishwasher?
71. Would you rather share a milkshake with two straws or share a giant ice cream sundae?
72. Would you rather share one blanket forever or share one dessert forever?
73. Would you rather have a pet together or plant a garden together?
74. Would you rather have your partner's cooking always burn or have your partner's singing always be off-key?
75. Would you rather spend a whole day without phones together or spend a whole day playing board games together?

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